Relationships

The Trouble with Integrity

Lots of us are having trouble with our integrity. One of my friends, a trustworthy man who normally behaves with integrity, told me that he did some cheating recently. He…

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Dad, Show Us How to Change

Fathers can show their children how to learn and change by pursuing their own emergence. But my dad did not know that we are emergent beings in an emergent universe.…

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How to Avoid Letting Trumpdom or Any Other Challenge of the Moment Drive You Mad

“To fight the unconsciousness you become the unconscious.” -Eckhart Tolle The current political realities are a subject of conversation at nearly every social event that Mary and I attend.  The…

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The Life-Shrinking Price of Feeling Separate

A friend tells me that she awakens each day with a pain in her stomach because she is filled with anxiety about the Trump presidency. She is convinced that Trump…

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How Trump Is Teaching the World About the Game of Life and How Not to Play It

Millions have read Florence Shinn’s classic 1925 advice book, The Game of Life and How to Play It. She was a Christian, so she saw the world in terms of…

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The Troubles with Christmas

As our family Christmas gathering approaches, we might assess the troubles ahead, just in case we aren’t already completely conscious about what goes on at these events.   And most…

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Why I Don’t Trust Your Feelings

emotion: 1. agitation of the passions or sensibilities often involving physiological changes.    2. Any strong feeling as of joy, sorrow, reverence, hate, or love arising subjectively rather than through conscious…

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Serving Others Is Not Our Life Purpose

Serving others is our life purpose, Martin Luther King taught us. I used to believe it and repeated that moral position to leaders in my coaching work, even though serving…

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The News: Our Best Mirror

“You are something that the whole universe is doing in the same way that a wave is something the ocean is doing.”     Eckhart Tolle (quoting Alan Watts)   We all…

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Dad, Show Us How to Change

Fathers can show their children how to learn and change by pursuing their own emergence. But my dad did not know that we are emergent beings in an emergent universe.…

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